The Sacred Fire Within

From Rage to Realignment: The Sacred Fire Within

There was a time when anger walked beside me like a shadow I couldn’t shake.

I didn’t choose to be angry—I became it.

When life throws you enough pain, rejection, betrayal, and abandonment, anger can feel like the only thing that listens.

It became my armor. My voice. My safety net.

If I stayed mad, I didn’t have to feel the deeper ache.

If I stayed mad, I didn’t have to trust anyone.

If I stayed mad, I could survive another day in a world that never once handed me peace freely.

But surviving isn’t the same as healing.

I used to think feeling deeply was dangerous.

That if I cried, I’d fall apart.

That if I let go of the rage, I’d have nothing left to stand on.

But the truth?

My feelings weren’t the enemy. The suppression was.

One day—one hard, holy, beautifully painful day—I realized:

You’re not “too much” for feeling deeply.

Your feelings are invitations to realign, not reasons to self-abandon.

Let your fire clear, not consume.

That hit me like lightning in my chest.

My fire didn’t have to destroy. It could refine.

I started to feel really feel not to drown in it, but to cleanse through it.

I learned to sit with my anger and ask it questions instead of shoving it in the closet.

Now, my fire is my sacred power.

It burns away what’s false. It ignites what’s real.

I let it fuel my growth, not my destruction.

If you’re there, if anger is your default and numbness is your norm—I see you.

I was you.

And I’m telling you, the healing doesn’t start when you stop feeling. It starts when you finally let yourself feel it all without shame.

Your fire was never the problem.

It just needed direction.

It needed truth.

It needed love.

Let your emotions rise like waves, but don’t let them crash the whole ship.

You’re not broken for burning—you’re being reborn.

🔥 Why I Chose to Help People

This is why I do what I do.

Because I know what it’s like to sit in silence, holding pain with no roadmap to healing.

Because I lived in survival mode too long, and no one told me there was more than just surviving.

Because I found my way out of the darkness and now, I hold the light for others.

Helping people isn’t just what I do it’s who I’ve become.

Every reading, every session, every post, every product I create… it’s my way of saying, “You’re not alone anymore.”

You don’t have to stay stuck in your fire.

Let’s walk through it together and rise from it stronger than ever.

Be Blessed Beautiful Souls

The Unique TonyaLe

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