This is such a easy trap to get into. We have all done it and many are still doing it.. With all that is going on in the world it is very easy to do. Now it is even more important that we guard and use our energy correctly. As much as we would like to throw in the towel and just say fuck it....we can't! Why? Because we are stronger than that, we are meant for bigger and better things. God (or whatever higher power you refer to) gave us bigger things to do on this trip to earth. We have a purpose and much to give the world.
People will come and go in our lives. Some people are only meant to be in our lives for a season. It sucks, because we want to keep them, but we can't. And at the end of the day, all of us leave each other eventually through the cycle of life.
We have one shot at this life, in this body, as this person. So we have to be careful how we spend it. So when it is our time we leave this world in peace.
We must pay attention to where our attention goes, and who we have around us. Where the attention goes, is where the energy flows. The people around us are a direct reflection of where we are. It is not their fault, not at all.. But we cannot fool ourselves they do have an impact on our lives, if they around us.. so we must ask some questions......Are they inspiring? Do they support me? Are they willing to give me truth, even when I don't want to hear it? Are they willing to hear truth also, when it is hard to hear? Are there conditions upon our relationship? These and many more questions are the type of things we have to ask ourselves about the circle we are in.
Then we must question ourselves also. Are we giving our all, or just half-ass doing things? Are we listening to our intuition & higherself? Are where we want to be? If not are we working on getting to that place, or sitting around and doing nothing, or even worse just complaining or coming up with excuses why we are not or can not get there?
The great news is if all the above is evening it is partly or completely true, it doesn't matter. Because today is a new day, and we can flip the script anytime we want to! We control everything around us, so therefore we can change anything within ourselves. We may not be able to help or change some people, but we can choose where we spend our energy. When you know better you do better (Maya Angelo)
So whatever yesterday was, leave it there in yesterday and live new today. We must take our lesson and move forward. Remember not everyone is for you. Most will even want to destroy you piece by piece, not because of you, but because of themselves. All we can do is love them and let them go.
You will know your tribe by their integrity. You will know if the love and support is there. Because it will be there consistently. If it isn't it is ok, just move along. Worry about keeping yourself in balance. Doing what you should be doing. Staying focused and self driven. Nobody got anywhere by sitting around talking about it.
So today we start a new. We start accomplishing small goals and then we will move on to bigger ones. We start being grateful for energy and start using it wisely. Surround ourselves with mind like people that is going to be a support system. We love ourselves and let go of what we haven't been doing, and just focus on what we are going to do now.
That my love, is all any of us can do.
Be Blessed ❤🌻🙏
The Unique Tonya Le